BDSM/Dominance & submission Services

Introduction

**NOTE**: Re: Spanking: although spanking is part of BDSM, spanking therapy is NOT. If you are interested in spanking therapy, this section is irrelevant and you should click on the link to access information about spanking therapy.

The BDSM lifestyle has entered the public sphere and is going mainstream and becoming more accepted. BDSM consists of many varieties of erotic practices including bondage, dominance and submission, role playing and other. Perhaps you have read or viewed shows about BDSM and found your way here when trying to learn more. BDSM has been the theme of a number of books and television programs including:

  • Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy by E.L. James
  • The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by Ann Rice under the pseudonym A.N. Roquelaure
  • The Sundance documentary Kink by James Franko presented at the Sundance Film Festival and purchased by the Oprah Winfrey network.

Spanking as an element of BDSM is one that many women fantasize about. It is surprising just how many ladies wish to experience this fantasy and would like to explore that it in a safe, sane and consensual way and a good place to start is with an introductory session that covers spanking as well as some other areas that are agreed to in advance. For example: you wonder what it would like to be placed over a man’s knee, have your dress raised, panties lowered and be spanked on a bare bottom.

Spanking is quite seductive and may be difficult to discuss with others. If you wish to explore your fantasy and are looking for a place to start, I recommend an introductory spanking with me.

I also offer an introduction to many other aspects of the BDSM lifestyle


Services Offered

If you would like to explore any of the following aspects of BDSM, please contact me via the email address below. We will arrange a meeting in a safe and public location at which I will explain in detail what will occur during a session and answer any questions you may have. For a brief definition of the following terms you may consult the BDSM Terms Dictionary at http://www.differentequals.com/glossary.html

  • Anal Play or Training
  • Bondage
  • Boot camp training (an assortment of BDSM related activities)
  • Clothes pins, clamps, weights, etc.
  • Companion for dinner, parties, fetish parties, or escort to events (I own a tux)
  • Erotic Humiliation
  • Forced orgasm
  • Heat play (ginger, peppermint oil, tiger balm, rubbing alcohol, ice, etc.)
  • Percussion play (spanking, paddling, caning, whipping)
  • Position training
  • Role playing games and acting out your scripted fantasies
  • Scratching
  • Sensation play (sensual touch with a variety of tactile toys)
  • Sensory deprivation
  • Sensual touch bdsm
  • Sexual teasing and torment
  • Slut training
  • Tantric bondage Massage
  • Tickle torture

I found this on the internet and it really hits home. However, it must be said there is nothing like experience. Just like going to a professional for services like a massage. It should be noted that not everyone is into pain play, I also enjoy bondage, teasing and torment orgasm control and teaching you to be in tune with your body.

I'm going to hurt you. Until the moment is satisfied and your eyes are tinted with that look of attainment. Shaking, knowing that the pain is overwhelming you to where you lose all train of thought and it's a glorious feeling being pushed off the tracks.
I'm going to hurt you in a way that allows the light within us to be snuffed out momentarily and we'll dance in our darkness instead. You'll taste my wickedness as I lick your fear.
I'm going to hurt you like most couples kiss, it'll both excite and terrify you in the best way possible. It may look and taste evil, but it'll still be filled with affection, because it's the knowledge you've given me that you need to be brutally beaten that makes it not only acceptable, but truly something to celebrate when it happens.
I'm going to hurt you. Because you want it and I very much want to hurt you as well and when those wants collide, it'll create an explosion, so salacious, you'll be dripping wet as soon as it begins.
I'm going to hurt you and you're going to love it. It'll break you mentally, because that's what you've consented to. But I'll make sure to mend your wounds and protect your emotions and mentality when I have you helpless and crying.
I'm going to make that moment, so rich with meaningful, the pain will be an afterthought, we'll instead be transfixed by how close we'll feel towards each other. It will be all that matters as I care for you with great pleasure and lots of attention after making you suffer for me so magnificently so.
I'm going to hurt you and it's going to feel just like home.

This is where aftercare is really important as you are flying in subspace and communication and hugging is paramount.

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