Introduction

The BDSM lifestyle has entered the public sphere and is going mainstream and becoming more accepted. BDSM consists of many varieties of erotic practices including bondage, dominance and submission, role playing and other. Perhaps you have read or viewed shows about BDSM and found your way here when trying to learn more. BDSM has been the theme of a number of books and television programs including:

  • Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy by E.L. James
  • The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by Ann Rice under the pseudonym A.N. Roquelaure
  • The Sundance documentary Kink by James Franko presented at the Sundance Film Festival and purchased by the Oprah Winfrey network.

Spanking as an element of BDSM is one that many women fantasize about. It is surprising just how many ladies wish to experience this fantasy and would like to explore that it in a safe, sane and consensual way and a good place to start is with an introductory session that covers spanking as well as some other areas that are agreed to in advance.

For me it began by witnessing a spanking and I find it the best introduction to the lifestyle for experience or inexperienced, fetish, adrenaline junkies, women who need to vent some stress and frankly just because it feels great. Yes it hurts but like any sport once the adrenaline is going it quickly turns to pleasure because a spanking is stimulating your pleasure centers like sex or a vibrator except the pain makes it even more enlightening. Add to that the anticipation, shame of having your panties pulled down or being told to do so in front of my eyes while you cant see me.

Spanking is quite seductive and may be difficult to discuss with others. If you wish to explore your fantasy and are looking for a place to start.


Kinky BDSM Interests

  • AFTERCARE is really important as you are flying in subspace and communication and hugging is paramount.
  • Anal Play or Training
  • Bondage is another amazing way to get your adrenaline flowing with or without a blindfold your senses are magnified. Also your forced to relax, let it go and also to trust. Bondage is also a great way to learn to be in touch with your body by being sexually stimulated by my touch or vibrators.
  • Boot camp training (an assortment of BDSM related activities)
  • Clothes pins, clamps, weights, etc.
  • Companion for non adult dinner parties, events etc if your visiting Montreal and want a companion.(I own a tux:)
  • Erotic Humiliation
  • Forced orgasm
  • Heat play (ginger, peppermint oil, tiger balm, rubbing alcohol, ice, etc.)
  • Percussion play (spanking, paddling, caning, whipping)
  • Position training
  • Role playing games and acting out your scripted fantasies
  • Scratching
  • Sensation play (sensual touch with a variety of tactile toys)
  • Sensory deprivation
  • Sensual touch bdsm
  • Sexual teasing and torment
  • Slut training
  • Tantric bondage Massage
  • Tickle torture
  • Whipping post. A full body nude adrenaline filled thrashing is fun for all (not on the first date:)

It must be said there is nothing like experience. Just like going to a professional for services like a massage.


I found this on the internet and it really hits home.

I'm going to hurt you. Until the moment is satisfied and your eyes are tinted with that look of attainment. Shaking, knowing that the pain is overwhelming you to where you lose all train of thought and it's a glorious feeling being pushed off the tracks.
I'm going to hurt you in a way that allows the light within us to be snuffed out momentarily and we'll dance in our darkness instead. You'll taste my wickedness as I lick your fear.
I'm going to hurt you like most couples kiss, it'll both excite and terrify you in the best way possible. It may look and taste evil, but it'll still be filled with affection, because it's the knowledge you've given me that you need to be brutally beaten that makes it not only acceptable, but truly something to celebrate when it happens.
I'm going to hurt you. Because you want it and I very much want to hurt you as well and when those wants collide, it'll create an explosion, so salacious, you'll be dripping wet as soon as it begins.
I'm going to hurt you and you're going to love it. It'll break you mentally, because that's what you've consented to. But I'll make sure to mend your wounds and protect your emotions and mentality when I have you helpless and crying.
I'm going to make that moment, so rich with meaningful, the pain will be an afterthought, we'll instead be transfixed by how close we'll feel towards each other. It will be all that matters as I care for you with great pleasure and lots of attention after making you suffer for me so magnificently so.
I'm going to hurt you and it's going to feel just like home.


There are many possible “tones” that a scene can have. I will move between many tones during a scene. Im different with everyone as I tailor the scene to our unique one-on-one connection. If there is a particular tone that you find most appealing, be sure to mention that.

  • SENSUAL: I enjoy the contradiction of imposing my will on another with softly whispered commands and the disarming power of seduction. Importantly, a sensual tone does not mean that I won’t give you pain If you want it. It just means I’ll be very sweet to you while I do.
  • PRIMAL: I channel my primal energies into the session, tapping into an animalistic aggression. Demanding, rough and pushy. There is no anger – only a driving need that must be satisfied. See whipping post
  • PLAYFUL: I am flippant and whimsical in the face of your suffering. I amuse myself by taunting and teasing you.
  • STRICT: I expect you to do exactly what I say, exactly when and how I say it.
  • HARSH: Cold, aloof, sneering and heartless. You are unworthy of my time. Perhaps you like to wear a hood and be a piece of meat for me to use and abuse. Limits respected and slowly pushed.

If any of the above resonates and stimulates you, it would be my pleasure to meet for a coffee. I live In ville saint laurent off the 40 or near the cote vertu metro.

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